Save the Date… or Not
Save the Date… or Not
It’s up to you!
I once read an extremely funny blog post whereby the author blamed ‘Save the Dates’ for guilt-ing the guests into attendance… because they’re sent early enough for people to adjust their schedules. So, he expounded on their inherent evils and selfish imposition on people’s time.
Hilarious post. Ridiculous reason. {I’m quite sure that people still have free wills and attend events because they want to}
I’ve also read that Save the Dates aren’t needed stationery items.
If like we need air to breathe… then no, Save the Dates aren’t needed. But then I really don’t need mascara or earrings~ yet I’m always wearing them.
It’s up to you!
Save the Dates are Helpful Planning Tools! If your wedding is on or near a holiday… during the busy summer months… OR perhaps if you’re planning a really cool destination wedding in the Bahamas… then your guests may need ample time and info to adjust their schedules and make the necessary travel arrangements. In this case, Save the Dates are a courtesy that can easily include: your wedding website, travel, hotel and any other info you deem important.
Save the Dates are FUN! There are virtually no rules to follow. Yay! Since they’re sent anywhere from 6-12 months ahead of the wedding date, colors and styles are often times still being explored. So, unless you know your colors and want to start setting the tone with your Save the Date, you have free creative reign! So go ahead, show off that personality of yours! Have fun with it! I always recommend using a Save the Date design that has room for 1-3 photos. That way, you can introduce your fiancé to those out of town guests.
What are your thoughts on Save the Dates?
I say go for it!
~Heidi











I feel that save the dates are needed! They give your guests plenty of time to plan for the event, and I think a polite gesture in doing so.
Great post!